The life you live (part two)

So, another day has come, and my mind is still cloudy, not to mention my soul, enough about me, and lets talk about us. We talked last time about those two different states that drive the human purpose. We talked about the happy state, and the misery state. Now we agreed that it's impossible to know when these state come and go, the most important thing is not when they come, but how can you go through them keeping your head up and not giving up on life.
The best way to do so is to know that even if this state is bad and the pain is awful, you know that good times are to come, and you are waiting for those times to arrive, even if the pain was larger than the happiness, in time this will even out. Now I am prepared to say that even if I give out this advice, and I speak the truth about these state that I notice, there is time of doubt, when even I don't know what to do and what path to choose. This situation is just like the one I am in right now. After all this pain I have to go through, I wonder when the happy part will come, you start to ask questions like: will it ever come? It will you just have to wait and see for yourself. I can't make you see the good side after you've been fired from your job, or you lost your love, but you have to know it's there and it will appear when it's ready. There are some people who don't think about the happy parts of life, or they don't see them. You have to appreciate what life gives you and don't see only the bad parts. This is very important in life to know that happiness doesn't come for granted, you have to make a difference between the happiness that you give yourself and the one that you get from "nature".
The only time when you won't have to think about the bad parts of life is when your life ends, that's when eternal happiness hits you (at least that's what I think). Now don't be stupid enough to think that this process can take less time and you can skip life, because if you do this not only will that eternal happiness disappear but nobody even dares to think what exactly you will face after, it's got to be terrible.
I will continue this subject in the final post that will be online tomorrow. This post was written in two days due to health problems, not to mention the "heart" problems.